{"product_id":"apexpulse-app-controlled-prostate-massager","title":"ApexPulse App-Controlled Prostate Massager — Silicone, Hands-Free","description":"\u003cp\u003eApexPulse is an app-controlled prostate massager in body-safe silicone. It sits in place hands-free once positioned, and the app puts the controls on your phone — or your partner's, from anywhere with a connection.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eSpecifications\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003ctable\u003e\n\u003cthead\u003e\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eFeature\u003c\/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eDetail\u003c\/th\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\u003c\/thead\u003e\n\u003ctbody\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eMaterial\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eBody-safe silicone — non-porous, phthalate-free, fully sanitisable\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eDesign\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eCurved prostate massager with a flared base and perineum arm\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eControl\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eApp control, plus on-device buttons\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eWeight\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003e80 g\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eColours\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eBlack, White\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eCharging\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eUSB rechargeable\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eLubricant\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003ctd\u003eWater-based only, generously\u003c\/td\u003e\n\u003c\/tr\u003e\n\u003c\/tbody\u003e\n\u003c\/table\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eSafety first — the flared base\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eNever use anything anally that lacks a flared base.\u003c\/strong\u003e The rectum has no natural stopping point the way the vagina does, and a toy without one can travel beyond reach. Every anal product we sell has a flared base for exactly this reason — it is not a design flourish, it is the thing that makes the category safe.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eUsing it\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eUse far more water-based lubricant than feels necessary.\u003c\/strong\u003e The rectum produces none of its own. Apply to both the toy and yourself, and reapply during use rather than pushing through friction.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eInsert slowly, curve pointing toward your navel.\u003c\/strong\u003e The prostate sits roughly 5–7 cm in on the front wall, and feels firmer and more rounded than the tissue around it. Steady pressure works; thrusting does not.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLet it settle before turning anything on.\u003c\/strong\u003e Once seated, it holds position hands-free — that is the appeal, and it is also why getting the placement right first matters.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eStart on the lowest setting.\u003c\/strong\u003e Prostate stimulation is more intense than most people expect on a first attempt.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFull technique in \u003ca href=\"\/blogs\/trending\/anal-play-101-safe-beginner-guide-plugs-lube-relaxation-2026\"\u003eAnal Play 101\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eUsing the app\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePair over Bluetooth before you need it, not during. Direct control works across a room; long-distance control runs over the internet and needs the app on both phones. The on-device buttons cover all core functions, so a dropped connection is an inconvenience rather than a dead toy.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMore on remote play in our \u003ca href=\"\/blogs\/trending\/app-controlled-sex-toys-long-distance-relationship-couples\"\u003eapp-controlled toys guide\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eCare \u0026amp; cleaning\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWarm water and mild unscented soap, or a toy cleaner, \u003cstrong\u003ebefore and after every single use\u003c\/strong\u003e. Anal toys need this without exception.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDo not submerge unless waterproofing is confirmed on your packaging.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAir dry fully before storing. Keep separate from other silicone items.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eNever share without a condom over it and a full clean between users.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eWater-based lubricant only\u003c\/strong\u003e — silicone lube degrades silicone. See \u003ca href=\"\/blogs\/trending\/toy-care-101-how-to-clean-store-vibrators-product-tester-program\"\u003eToy Care 101\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eQuestions\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eIs this a good first prostate toy?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIt is a step up from a handled massager. If this is your first time, our RingGrip — which you hold throughout — is the gentler starting point. Come here once you are comfortable with the sensation and want it hands-free.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDo I need the app?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003eNo. All core functions work from the buttons on the device. The app adds custom patterns and remote control.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eCan my partner control it from another city?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003eYes, through the app over an internet connection. Both of you need it installed.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWill it stay in place?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe flared base and perineum arm are designed to hold it seated hands-free. Take time over the initial positioning; that is what determines whether it holds.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDo I need to prepare beforehand?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003eOptional, not required. A normal shower is enough for many people. If you rinse, use plain lukewarm water only — never soap.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003ePart of our wider \u003ca href=\"\/blogs\/trending\/male-sex-toys-guide-strokers-prostate-toys-couples-2026\"\u003eguide to male sex toys\u003c\/a\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eShips in plain, unbranded packaging. Your card statement shows \u003cstrong\u003eFEMME BLISS\u003c\/strong\u003e, with no product names or adult wording.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Femme Bliss Boutique","offers":[{"title":"Black","offer_id":54373502714169,"sku":null,"price":44.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true},{"title":"White","offer_id":54373503107385,"sku":null,"price":44.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0900\/3846\/8921\/files\/ApexPulse_Black.jpg?v=1787816068","url":"https:\/\/www.femmebliss.net\/products\/apexpulse-app-controlled-prostate-massager","provider":"Femme Bliss Boutique","version":"1.0","type":"link"}